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We need fathers. Many of the problems faced currently in our society stem from Fatherlessness. Mothers, you are not fathers. No Person can replace what a father is in a child’s life.
It matters who you choose to surround yourself with. You’ll talk how they talk, and you’ll treat others how they treat others. You’ll absorb a bit of their general attitude towards life whether you mean to or not. Surround yourself with believers, and dreamers, and do-ers. Surround yourself with people who shine, and who give, and who radiate love. Surround yourself with the true ones, and the grateful ones, and the ones who know how to keep it truly genuine ❤️
Ladies, it is up to you to communicate your needs. So often women think “if he loves me he’ll know what I want”. This is utter nonsense.
Wanting money for security isn’t wrong. It doesn’t mean she needs yours, gentleman. Plenty of women create their own security. But they sure don’t need another child to take care of either. And wanting to find a partner who is capable of providing security isn’t wrong. Women don’t need to be shamed for wanting as much.
I know it’s easy to peg “men” or “women” as the problem. But the truth is, that’s simple thinking for complex problems. The opposite sex isn’t your problem. Their “demons” are. And by “demons” I mean the unhealed parts of them.
Over 35 and never married became a big one for me. I know it won’t for everyone. And I’m sure plenty of men have committed after the age of 35 and been lovely. Personally, I wasn’t willing to be another experiment for those men. I would also add, any man who couldn’t take accountability for past failed relationships. Personally, someone who can admit to their part of what went wrong has strong character and is more trustworthy. In my view anyway.
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