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I know this sounds like common sense. But the truth is a lot of you don’t even know what you want. Or, some of you do, but you’re not making decisions that are supportive of what you want. Want to find a healthy partner and have a solid healthy marriage? Not gonna happen dating a married man, sis. Also not gonna happen if you keep saying yes to men you know you should be saying no to. He’s 35 and never married? He’s probably not gonna marry you either. It’s not that you’re not special or good enough. It’s that he has commitment issues and he doesn’t want what you want. How long you gonna stick around to find out? How much of YOUR time are you going to give him? YOU get to decide. YOU have the power to claim what you want. And only YOU can make it happen. 🖤
Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. has always been one of my favorite historical figures. His work was incredibly important and I’ve always admired and respected him. As a young woman who competed in several rodeo Queen competitions and had grueling personal interviews my favorite question ever asked from a judge was “If you could meet anyone in history who would it be and why?”. My answer was Martin Luther King, Jr. for the same reasons listed above. He didn’t do what was easy, but he did what was necessary and what was right.
I used to think that loving someone meant having to have a relationship with them. Only when I emotionally matured and healed did I realize that loving someone has absolutely nothing to do with being in a relationship with them. Making the mature, responsible decision to let go of a relationship that is unhealthy for you takes immense courage and strength. So if you have ever done that I acknowledge you and I say congratulations for loving yourself and letting go with grace and dignity. 🖤
I don’t know who said this. But it’s brilliant😆
Don’t waste your time “helping” people who don’t want your help. The beautiful thing is this: when people want your help, opinion, or advice they will ask you for it. And when they ask, they will be ready to not only listen, but to hear you 🖤
Miserable people will be miserable. The problem lies inside the miserable human. Not anyone else.